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Starting college often feels daunting, especially when it comes to making new friends. Whether you're a freshman or an introvert, the process can seem challenging. However, there are numerous opportunities for building connections.

The Leadership and Involvement Center at UW-La Crosse has shared some practical tips for students seeking friendships:

- Keep your dorm room door open to signal openness to conversation.

- Engage with classmates by sitting near others and forming study groups.

- Look up from your phone and greet those around you.

- Participate in clubs or organizations to meet people with similar interests.

- Utilize residence hall activities and common spaces for socializing.

- Get involved in recreational sports or intramural activities offered by UWL Rec Sports.

"Attend Eagle Fest, Involvement Fair and Campus Activities Board events early in the semester," suggest students at UW-La Crosse. These events provide valuable information on campus involvement opportunities.

Residence halls offer a built-in community where joining hall-sponsored activities can help you connect with neighbors. "Your RA or resident assistant is a great resource for support and connection," they add.

Recreation is another avenue for meeting new people. Intramural sports, outdoor trips, group fitness classes, and sport clubs provide various options for students looking to stay active while socializing.

Students are also encouraged to visit campus offices aligned with their identity or interests. These include the Pride Center, Student Support Services, Multicultural Student Services, Disability Resource Center, Center for Civil Dialogue & Civic Engagement, and McNair Scholars program.

On-campus jobs offer more than just financial benefits; they facilitate interaction with fellow students and staff while accommodating student schedules.

Finally, finding a "third place" outside home and classroom settings—like a coffee shop or library—can be crucial in forming lasting relationships through repeated interactions in these spaces.

For further reading on creating such spaces, Richard Kyte's “Finding Your Third Place” is recommended.